As a Mom and a woman, it's all good. I don't have to be funny to be happy. However, as a speaker and as someone who values communication and skill therein, it behooves me to learn to use humor, even fundamentally. So a few years ago I joined an improvisational comedy performance troupe. I was compelled because I sneakily watched them practice while my son was in rehearsal in the same building, and I finally accepted an invitation to come on in and watch... then participate... and I really enjoyed it. The experience was fun AND I learned a great deal that I could apply to my work as well as my life in general.
And so sometime circa 2011 I appeared with the troupe in my first ever improv performance. Was I funny? Not really. I was just good at reacting to what the more seasoned performers were offering. I wasn't very good in situations where the comedic input relied on me; and I knew it, so I kept practicing and doing shows and I kept learning and growing and having a blast. I did it for a few years, until my schedule simply didn't have room (although I'd love to give it a go again sometime).
Fast forward to now and I'm working pretty regularly as a speaker and communication consultant. Despite all that I learned in improvisation, I still struggle to insert comedy into my presentations. I have nobody on stage offering the punchline so it's all on me, and that awkwardness gets me every time. So I decided to challenge myself.
I joined Toastmasters a few months ago to keep my game sharp and practice regularly. I learned that a humorous speech contest was coming up, and after thinking about it for fifteen seconds, I signed on to participate. It took fifteen seconds for me to experience my initial reaction of 'NO WAY' and then consider that that is exactly why I should participate. This was an opportunity for me to up my game and utilize what I'd learned in improv to weave humor into a structured speech and deliver it. What could I really lose right? It certainly wouldn't be the first time I'd embarrass myself if it got awkward.
I created a speech. I delivered it, and qualified to participate in the area contest for Toastmasters. Low and behold... I WON! Yay!
Lesson here is this: There is always room for improvement and whatever attribute we want to build in ourselves is absolutely possible with a little challenge. Challenge can be a good thing, I wrote about it once before, here.
We all feel inadequate in some way. My hope for you is that you are inspired by this and you do what needs to be done to alter that, improve and grow! Sometimes it takes time... but be persistent and you'll get there!
Find me on Facebook to cheer me on I move forward in the competition!
Winner from another area, and I, will meet again soon :)
Look kids! Mom is funny!
Runner up from another area, affectionately remembered as "Psycho"
from her cracked-me-up speech.